I am on the verge of turning 27 years wiser and I want to share what I’ve recently learned with everyone who is currently within the dating realm. People will show you and tell you who they are, it just depends on whether we either become blind to it or accept it.
I have finally learned this lesson. There has to be a balance of good and “evil” in order for humanity to learn from itself. People enter our lives for the purpose of enhancing our growth no matter the degree of hurt they may present us. We can either build upon it or dwell within it.
People will reveal who they are when we meet them. Trust them when they tell you who they are and pay attention to how they portray themselves as well. We often turn a blind eye to certain signs and characteristics, that is what hurts us in the end. It’s the expectation of what we want, not the reality in which it is presented.
Dating is a difficult community to be a part of when you think you know what you want and how you think it will look. I had to release all my major expectations and in doing so I was able to attract what I need, not what I want in a partner. I guess what I’m aiming to say is, listen, observe, and accept what is presented. From that point on you have control, never lose sight of your own control. Control over your feelings most importantly, because dating is hard. Just know exactly what you need from a partner and release all your expectations; only then will you come across your King/Queen.